
Valerie is 20 months old and makes me laugh almost everyday. She is figuring out her place in the family and testing the boundaries of just how bossy she can be. (We let her be pretty bossy at this point, because she is so cute and we can't help it.) She is also learning a lot of new words. She talks quite a bit, but the part I love most is when I catch her singing, sometimes she is trying to sing a song we all know, but she also makes up her own little songs.
All of our Children have come to this age with many words of their own. It is fun to hear some of the words they come up with on their own and it is also fun to figure out what they are saying. Emily called Prince Phillip "Pea Soup." Joe called Emily, OHWEE for a couple of years. Josh was our most creative in the language department and used a lot of different words for things. Like Boo Boo meant train. Valerie has also come up with a few words of her own, and we think we know what most of them mean, but we could be wrong.
Valerie has figured out that if she does not like what someone is doing she can cry and usually someone will come running to see what is happening. She has also learned to say owie if she does not like what is happening. For example, one night she kept getting out of bed, and I kept putting her back in. About the third time I put her back in bed she changed her M.O. from crying, to screaming OWIE, OWIE, OWIE. Hoping that dad would come and save her.
She is getting really good at using that word, but it is usually followed by a word not found in the English Dictionary, "Ma May"
With all of her climbing talents and just the normal trouble a toddler can get into in a day, there are many moments when we have to stop her from doing things. Or tell her NO. So when anyone does something that Valerie does not like, she will go tell on them to someone else. And she will tell them that they are "Ma May." For instance. I take her off of the counter and tell her she can't climb up there. She will go to dad and say in a sad or mad voice.
"Mama, Ma may!"
Ryan and I are "Ma May" at least once a day, and there are days when everyone is "Ma May" for one reason or another. A couple of Weeks ago Ryan had to take something over to his parents. When he left we were all being "Ma May," so Ryan took Valerie with him to see Grandma. As soon as she got to Grandma's house, Valerie went down the roll and told Grandma that we were all "Ma May".
We have decided that "Ma May" means, "mean to me," but I am still not convinced, because sometimes she will come and tell me that Josh or Joe are mean. All I know is that if someone tells Valerie that she is "Ma May" she gets really mad, so whatever it means it can't be good.
Josh has been "Ma May" so much that one day when Valerie was playing I heard her sing this little song.........
"Joshy, Joshy, Joshy, Joshy, MaMay"
I wish I would have recorded it. Maybe someone else will earn a song soon.